Tuesday, 30 August 2011

爭臣與孝道

討論孝道的書莫過於孝經了,孝經敘述著做為一個平民、士或是從政時,所要遵循的大原則。

基本上,和大家所認知的知識差不多,也在小的時候,都知道要聽從父母的話。但,話說回來,只有聽從,就算是圓滿了孝道嗎?這在曾子也發生過疑問,也問了孔子。﹝見【附】文﹞孔子對於他的問題感到非常驚訝,連說了兩次〝你在說什麼?〞,所以,這一則的觀念對於理解孝道是非常重要的。

簡單地説,因為父母也是人,在還沒有成道之前,也都會犯錯。因此,子女對於父母不能盲從、從政對於長官不能盲從。反而,要針對他﹝們﹞的錯誤,適當地表達,而讓事件更為圓滿;否則,父母、長官大多會陷於不義。這對於子女、部署來說,也多少犯下了〝共犯〞的責任﹝看事情的輕重,或是修養等級而定﹞。因此,孔子說〝當不義,則爭之。〞

所以,我在這一篇短文之中,簡單地說明從事孝道應有的、更正確的態度。

【附】孝經 諫諍章第十五

曾子曰:「若夫慈愛恭敬,安親揚名,則聞命矣。敢問子從父之令,可謂孝乎?」子曰:「是何言與?是何言與?昔者天子有爭臣七人,雖無道,不失其天下;諸侯有爭臣五人,雖無道,不失其國;大夫有爭臣三人,雖無道,不失其家;士有爭友,則身雖不離於令名;父有爭子,則身不陷於不義。故當不義,則子不可以不爭於父,臣不可以不爭於君;故當不義,則爭之。從父之令,又焉得為孝乎?」

Sunday, 15 July 2007

The Different Styles of Indigo Children in Different Countries

Like the topic of this letter . I make an example : TaoYuan's Indigo Children in Formosa .

One of them , is very smart to handle the conflict emotions between classmates . Although he is an idiot , he was told by me that everybody has his own advantages , and he should go his path through developing his advantages . I think he will be very easy to be a taxi driver --- for example . And he is an intellectual handicap , is good at inter-personal relations . When he failed to win the unreasonable quarrels , he would said he wanted to hit his head to a wall . ( in our country , it's a very pitiable thing to suicide ) Then he got win . Also , he is a poor . I gave him a alarm clock . His grand-ma was un-believable ! Phoned to school to know the truth . Because it's very difficult to change the relations between the riches and the poors . I think it's the same problem in the whole world .

A girl --- marvolous ! --- she will be a model of people ( in my foreseeing ) , or be a model of a kind of life patterns ! As other children want to make fun of her , she will whisper back in an actress' tone . ( yes , I like her very much !) She also like to speek a "story" including wispering or imitating chickens' , dogs' or cats' tones ( for example ) . And sometimes , she learns how to share the love from teachers to other children . She also has lessons to teach her younger brother .

A girl --- full of anti-moral character --- , as I taught the whole kids not so properly , would give some bad temper back to me . God taught me through her actions like this : give me some hints to taught them more perfectly . I wrote down some daily to give out my some bad temper , and got very nice hints to taught them more ! And sometime , some kids would change already as I meet them next time . LaoTze said : Dao helps the people good enough !

Other two boys behaved like the leaders of gangs . Gangs problems is very serious in here . They were reasonable in the old history . But they became more unreasonable since late 20 or so . One of them is very reasonable one . He help other students , and they help him too . The inter-relations are good . The other one is very bad . He only live in his own world . Very less students like him . Because he is very rude .

Two sisters , so-called slow-developing intellectual kids . Especially , the young sister is hard to communicate with other students . She never said a word . As she speak back to me , she just use her simple facial expressions . In my opion , they are not necessary to go to a cram school . She can be a very nice low-educated persons , to be farmers , for example .

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The Seven Stages of Awareness 七個認知學習的層次

stvmrsdn 說:
It is the unconscious aspiration of every human being to eventually
reach the highest possible vibration. At the moment, Earth's peak of
energy is the crystalline aura - anything above that would be unable

in my opinion , there are crystalline arua and some full possible aura . One can receive them depend on ones kindness and tendency toward Heaven of Dao etc .

to attach to our minds and, therefore, would have no connection to
our physical bodies. But even crystals have their ups and downs and
few of them have fully reached their uppermost energy level.

People are their purest at birth - everything after that seems

I think it is true that an infant is bad or good according to his eveluations and his/her lesson in this life .

downhill in most cases! Almost all babies are born with a higher-
vibrational aura. Not all of them start out at the highest level
though because different psychological and physical environmental
changes they experience while in the womb affect their energy.
Unborn children experience numerous shifts as their own ( depend on his/her lesson and mather/father etc. ) highly
sensitive vibration is connected deeply with their mothers - any
changes she feels emotionally, physically, mentally, or spiritually
will immediately influence the baby. After a child is born, their
environment determines their vibrational level. The years between
zero and five are the most active for shifts in energy though some
kids will jump around even until seven years old. After seven, the
aura becomes stuck at one level with only up as a possibly direction.

If one want to change his/her aura after six or seven , he/she must change his/her mind and depend on his/her learning and social/educational inspirations .

Some children, Indigos especially, are strong and do not allow their
environment to change them too much during these receptive years.
They usually stay about the same colour by using automatic shields
to disconnect them from the world. ( I do not think they want to disconnect to outside , they want to realize the world from their own mind independently or a group of indigo children.) These include not speaking or
communicating, going into trances, developing ADD/ADHD, or merely
showing signs of psychic gifts that allow them to remember the
higher vibrations.

However, this doesn't entirely work. What we didn't think of was the
need to communicate with our parents, teachers, and other adult
guides. ( That is true and very important works !) They do not have the awareness to understand our telepathy ( This is marvelous evaluations of Earth)
or ever-seeing (the ability to look into the eyes of another person
and see their true meaning), so the only way to interact is to start
speaking or paying attention. We forget to look inside and speak
with our minds and our real meanings are lost on clumsy verbal
languages. ( or one can say that they loss the ability to communicate with God or Inner. )Many memories that were clear seconds after birth become
dreamlike and impossible to recall. ( This is possible because of Inn Chi of Earth to affect the indigo children as communicates with inner. ) The first to disappear from
remembrance is often that of our mission here on Earth. Those that
follow are usually the ideas connected to it and its importance.
These Indigos will grow up unconsciously seeking their purposes.
Generally, we all follow the same pattern:

1. Searching for Truth
After the age of ten (though some begin earlier or later than
usual); Indigos begin to search for their truths. Through intuition-
driven research, ( If possible , let them learn together. ) Indigos begin to develop what they see as beliefs.
Most Indigos do not even realize what they are doing - we naturally
ask "why" when something puzzles us! This is the time when we use
our finely tuned lie-detector to decide what is true, what is half-
true (for example; myths, legends, and stereotypes), and what is a
deliberate lie. The lies and half-truths are tossed away or filed
somewhere for further scrutiny.

2. Gathering Knowledge
When we find something that feels true - a sensation that rises from
deep within us - we find out about it. Usually this is through
asking questions or, if the resources are available, learning about
it through the internet, books, and television. When Indigos get to
this stage they begin to question themselves and their choices on
religion, eating habits, sleep patterns, life style , knowledge of parents and teacher and sociey etc.

3. Shifting
Questioning leads to dramatic changes. Indigos at this point are
trying things out and trying to find something manmade that will
suit them. This is where the Starseed and Otherkin theories (can you simply intruduce these two theories for me ? Very thenks !) came
from; Indigo children, teenagers, and adults looking to explain
their presence on Earth. ( Some are possible new soul from somewhere to earth , some are definitely are old soul that live here to help people , earth and Heaven .) We also change our religious attitudes
significantly - jumping from faith to faith is beneficial in forming
an opinion about our own tendencies. ( In my sole opinion , we should open our mind to accept every religion are all paths that lead people to Heaven !)

4. Awakening
The outcome of all this outside searching is a spontaneous moment of
insight. That moment is the exact instant of awakening when we
finally discover that we cannot shape our beliefs to suit the molds
of society - something is always out of place or missing. ( From my personal point of view , one should build his/her own world in his/her mind .) Usually
we stop looking for answers (at least for ourselves) in outside
sources and turn inward to find our truth because it was never
really lost in the first place - we just buried it deep within to
keep it safe. ( This is true and a very awful thing ! So , we should advice people to open their mind forever ! )

5. Remembering
This step is like the top of the hill; once you reach it the rest of
way is much easier to complete. Knowledge begins to come back to us
as small bursts of wisdom (Indigos usually experience this
throughout their lives because they act like magnets in a way) and
slowly we develop an all-inclusive memory again.

6. Becoming
When you begin to remember your mission, it is only natural to
return to your state of full awareness. ( very good !) Sometimes this can take time
because emotions like fear, hate, and embarrassment may hinder your
progress. As you become your true self you will see that you no
longer have need for unhealthy things in life whether they are
emotional, physical, mental or spiritual.

7. Being
The final step, the ultimate goal - when you succeed at reaching
this point you know that you are capable of anything and everything.
Fear no longer takes an affect and embarrassment is replaced by
courage and logic. Hate will seem useless because your knowledge
will tell you how to fix something unhealthy. Your body will
finally be able to request wholesome food intake and sleeping
patterns and receive them without emotional or mental issues
blocking the way.

By reading this, you can probably categorize yourself somewhere in
the seven steps (in- between steps is possible and sometimes you go
back and forth within them as well). I myself have just recently
reached the stage of Becoming (though I am still partially in a
state of Remembrance) but don't compare yourself to me - I started
shifting early so that I could be here to write this for you to read!
I am a spiritual seeker ! My state is sometimes good and sometimes bad . And bounce up very high sometimes but if I choose wrong , I may go into very deep because of punishments of Heaven .
Whatever state you are in, whichever direction you are going, just
remember that the only way to go is up!

RuShen Lin 06/04/30

Laurel Chaisson 2005